Won't anyone think of the REAL victims of the Iraq War?

If you go by the traditon of past wars: the spoils of war belong to the victor, so yes we own it all (or did we really win?). Anyway, we took it under false pretenses (we invaded for no valid reason), therefore the spoils are not ours. The "real victims" are the people that lost their lives - for nothing, and their families. They are US Soldiers, private contractor employees, and last but not least the Iragi citizens.